Some people claim that happiness in marriage is entirely a matter of chance, but is it?
Marriage is probably one of the most complex institutions of human society, because it involves two very unique variables:
1. It is a life long commitment, "until dead do us apart" (or so it begins that way).
2. It is a partnership between two very dissimilar characters: a man and a woman, two subjects meant to become each other's half that often find themselves on totally different polarities.
This clearly shows that marriage is an uphill right from the start, which makes you wonder, if this is the case, can we safely assume that happiness in marriage is entirely a matter of chance?
As any difficult task in life, when you succeed at it you can never 100% rule out the luck factor, because sometimes you do everything you are supposed to in order to accomplish a goal and for whatever reason you simply do not make it.
On the other hand, it is possible that you have not even tried that hard to reach a goal and yet you achieve what you are after, in which case you cannot deny that you probably got lucky and chance played a major role.
However, the fact is that successes in life and in marriage for that matter are statistically proven to be the result of consistent effort, devotion and dedication, sure you will find some cases where a lazy guy hit it big, but the average success story is usually backed by a great deal of commitment and self discipline.
Marriage is definitely a great place to be, but it does not come without its good share of difficulties, it is simply hard work, so happiness in marriage can hardly be entirely a matter of chance, because very few people are that lucky and there are far more happy marriages than lucky fellows out there.